DEAR DEIDRE: I’m enjoying a secret affair with my best friend’s dad, but I feel terrible hiding it from her.
I’m 21, my friend is 20 and we became best friends while studying music in college.
We hit it off and I became friends with her mom, brother and dad.
He is 41 years old, absolutely gorgeous and looks much younger than his years.
He is the lead singer in the band and plays the guitar.
One evening my friend and I went to see their performance and I couldn’t help but admire it.
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In the following weeks, something changed between us and whenever I visited a friend’s house, I would feel a real fluttering sensation when he came near me or even looked at me.
I had never felt anything like it and I prayed that no one else noticed how I felt about him.
But they had. One night I missed the last bus so my friend’s dad drove me home.
He stopped at the end of my street and looked at me intensely.
Without saying a word, he leaned in and started kissing me.
It honestly completely took my breath away.
Since then, he would drive me regularly and we would kiss in his car.
Over the months we met in village pubs and shared meals together.
On the way home we will find somewhere secluded and I will give him oral sex or we will have full sex.
But I began to feel uneasy around my friend.
She even mentioned that her parents are fighting more than ever.
I’m starting to feel really guilty about what her dad and I were up to.
If I tell her, it will destroy my family and my friendship, but I know one day I won’t be able to stop blurting it out.
DEIDRE SAYS: You have a lot more to lose than your friends.
Her dad would no doubt drop you like a hot stone, their family would probably come together, and you would be described as a home wrecker.
This man must think all his Christmases have come at once because he has a beautiful girlfriend half his age.
Ask yourself, what kind of man would have an affair with a much younger person who is best friends with their own child?
This man is selfish and careless not only towards his marriage but also towards his family.
There’s no way this is going to end well if you let it drag on.
Pay attention to the guilt you feel. Find the courage to end this.
Tell him you’ve come to your senses and avoid him at all costs until you feel strong enough to reject him.
You deserve someone closer to your age, with whom you can have a decent relationship, not just secret sex.
Categories: Optical Illusion
Source: newstars.edu.vn